What if all that you’ve felt all this while was but an illusion or a desire to reach where you are not destined to?
Have you loved enough? 
Or should you at all?
Maybe you’ve found yourself this guy. Maybe you’ve loved him more than you know of love. But now that you are figuring out your own broken pieces, you know you deserve better. No, not a better man, but better of what he has been to you. Better of all that you’ve blindly put into him.
You find out that you’ve silently agreed to a vague present and how that still seems better than all that you will ever receive.
Do you pity yourself? 
Out of all things, you remind yourself to appreciate and celebrate what is meant to be at the moment. You don’t live in the moment but these moments find life in you!
You remember to make yourself some dessert and walk yourself a night. You sing to what makes you happy, dance to the rhythm of the blues in your heart and you never let that crown fall off your head.
You never forget to appreciate yourself even if a man does. Mostly then.
Yet you have not fallen out of love. Maybe you never will. 

Maybe all that they make you feel is a passing phase but remember, you are here to stay. 

P.S. I took a month long break and wrote this last night on a journey back home from a trip. I’ve missed this space and I am hoping to hear from everyone here in the family!

Thank you for reading. 
Never let the words fall short! 😊

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  1. GOOD ONE 🙂

    1. Thank you Pawan. Long time. How have you been? 😊

      1. Yeah, fine, missed your posts 🙂 , Where have you been so long ?

        1. I was sick and then, I needed a break as well. I’ve missed reading your posts too. Very glad to be back and be able to read again. 😊

          1. 😊

          2. Hope you are fine now.

          3. Yes. I’m doing good. Thank you. 😊

  2. and you were missed ❤

    1. So glad to be back! Means a lot. 😊

  3. “You don’t live in the moment but these moments find life in you!” This line is really impressive.

    1. Thank you. I’m glad you find it nice! 😊

  4. Very beautiful post Sweet Ojha. I’m glad to hear your feeling better and it always good to find your posts. This post contains a great deal of wisdom, and practical advice-which is often the best kind.
    Thank you for posting!

    1. Thank you for stopping by and reading. It’s good to hear from you after so long. I’m glad you like this post and appreciate my efforts. 😊

  5. Welcome back 🙂 yes, it is a powerful reminder …you are here to stay, everything else may be a phase …so be kind to yourself, love yourself. Lovely post.

    1. Thank you very much dear. It’s so nice to hear from you! I hope you are doing good and I’m glad you agree as much to the post. Stay blessed. 😊

      1. I am doing absolutely well. Ease and joy to you! 🙂

        1. Stay blessed. 😊

  6. I missed you so much. Glad you are back and this blog really made me think and beautifully written and you push us readers to re-think of life and what is now. 🙂

    1. Oh I’ve missed your posts as well. Glad to hear from you. I hope you are doing great Charlie. I’ve missed this space so much. Thank you for stopping by and appreciating my effort. 😊

  7. Glad you are back, felling better and refreshed. Lovely post dear. Stay blessed.

    1. Thank you so much. Glad to be able to read posts again. Stay blessed. 😊

  8. not bad ha sweta ..ur blog is ossamm

    1. Thank you for stopping by and appreciating. I’m glad you think so. 😊

      1. yaa ur welcome..

  9. Powerfully written.

    1. Thank you very much. I’m glad you like it. 😊

  10. First crush and first love are the starters. If we eat too much we run the risk of losing onto the the Main Course.
    Smart dinners do remember : “You are here to stay” ( for Dinner ).

    1. The best possible advice that goes with the write-up. Thank you for sharing. 😊

  11. ¡Nice article! ¡Wellcome back!

    1. Thank you for the welcome and the appreciation. Nice to hear from you. 😊

  12. I’ve never found the right guy. As a matter of fact I’m happy to say I have never even looked for the right guy. LOL actually I hope it’s okay that I post on here cuz I am a guy and I just wanted to say thanks for the follow and I think you’re doing wonderful things here and I’d like to stay in touch…tj

    1. Haha. As a matter of fact, that’s very nice of you to have dropped by and commented. Glad to have you here. Thank you for the appreciation. Looking forward to your posts. Shall stay in touch. 😊

      1. That would be great… where do you live? I have a bet…with myself, but cant decide…lol

        1. I am not sure if you’ve guessed it right but I am an Indian residing in the city of joy, Kolkata. 😊

          1. I suspected but I must admit in all my trips to India , I never saw someone with your unique blend of features….
            Ok. Ok. So Ive never actually BEEN to India, but I read National Geographic.. So same difference, right?

          2. Yes. Same indeed. Where are you from?

          3. A little quiet village town called Daytona Beach Florida-USA..ever hear of It?

          4. Sadly I haven’t heard of the town. Nice meeting you anyway. 😊

          5. are you on Facebook Messenger by any chance

          6. I’m going to hit you with an email because my new laptop isn’t working right figures…it was made over in India somewhere. You know how those people are…LOL.. just kidding but seriously I would like to ask you a few questions about your writing and what you do because I do have some connections over there and I also have some similar interests that I would like to touch base about so I’m going to email you in a few minutes

          7. Sure. I’d revert as soon as possible.

          8. Actually I do have Posse over in your hood. One of my besties Raja lives in Guntur…

  13. This is a very tempting site that I would love to explore at leisure.
    Thanks for the visit and WELCOME.

    1. Thank you very much for the lovely words of interest. I’m glad to have you here and I am looking forward to your posts as well. Stay blessed. 😊

  14. My most favorite line ” never let your crown fall”.Written well.I think we are original,even shadow doesn’t change depending on our moods.soo why should we change.love is the only true companion to us in this journey

    1. Oh yes I absolutely believe in never letting the crown fall and celebrating individuality. Thank you for reading, appreciating and sharing your words. Glad. 😊

  15. Great piece. Wow!!

    1. Thank you very much. I’m glad you like it. 😊

  16. A wonderful writeup after a break..i like the line” remember you’re here to stay” .Keep writing and yess never let the words fall shorts😇😇

    1. That is something I wanted to emphasize on. Thank you. I’m glad the break worked well. Also, the signature line is already used this time. 😃😂

      1. Haha….i never missed a chance to steal this signature line.😂😂
        Have a lovely weekend ahead☺

        1. You as well. 😊

  17. Thanks for the follow Sweta 🙂

    1. You are very welcome. Glad to connect. 😊

  18. Thank you for visiting my blog, Sweta…:)…you are already a celebrity as I can see….:)….I have just a small new blog….and still in the learning process of writing my own thoughts….and sharing whatever comes to my mind….:)….You have a nice blog here..

    1. Hello Anindya.
      It’s a pleasure to connect. You have a decent blog that I came across while browsing the reader. I ain’t a celebrity for sure. All of us are in the learning process. Thank you for your kind words. 😊

      1. Thank you 😊

  19. Love this piece. Nicely written too. Thanks for checking out my blog.

    1. Thank you very much. Pleasure to connect. 😊

  20. Reblogged this on LIVING Life and commented:
    Such a beautiful read 🙂

    1. Thank you very much for sharing the words. I’m glad you find it beautiful. 😊

  21. A beautiful post… Indeed a very deep one. A real understanding of life at its best.
    Hope you doing good now, got to read you were sick. Life in itself is the only teacher which teaches at very moment.
    Loved the words and really see a lot of light in those words. At any time it is actually the moment just right now.

    1. Thank you very much. I am absolutely fine now. Life is the best teacher indeed. Thank you for sharing your words. 😊

      1. Happy to know you are fine… May source shower on you grace and blessings and you be blessed with good health always. 🙏

        1. Thank you. I wish the very same for you. 😊

          1. Thank you beautiful soul 🙏🙏

  22. First of all really glad to see you back, I had been on a break myself! And hope you are well now!
    Coming to the post, as usual amazing! More importantly I like your words saying that we don’t just live the moments but those moments find life in us.👍👍👍
    Stay blessed!😊😊

    1. Thank you for the nice welcome. I’m doing good. I hope you had a good break yourself.
      As for the post, I’m glad you like it. Thank you for the constant motivation. Never let the words fall short! 😊

      1. It’s my pleasure 😊

  23. Great post. I loved you blog; the posts, overall feel of it. Look forward to reading more. And you are a published author! Congrats on that ( I’m almost jealous :)) & Thanks for stopping by my place.

    1. Thank you very much. I’m glad you have got some very nice compliments to shower! I hope I’ll find myself a point to be jealous too so that we run at equals. Stay blessed. 😁

      1. 🙂

  24. Wonderful post! Thank you for beeing back!
    Hope you stay well? Sorry, we once more lost the connection to the three indian ladies we are following. You, Misstalkaholic, and Sudershana are our three “indian queens” we love to follow. 😉 You are our “bridge to India”.;-)

    1. Thank you for reconnecting! I’m glad I’m one of the three bloggers representing India and I hope I am doing it right on my part! 🙂
      Stay connected. 🙂

      1. Thanks, you are always doing right on your part, representing india at a glance. Kindly M.

        1. Elated. Stay blessed. 🙂

    1. Thank you for sharing the words! 🙂

  25. Welcome back! 🙂

    1. Thank you so much. Glad to have you here. 🙂

  26. Great post! Thank you for like and follow! ❤ Have a great day! 🙂

    1. A pleasure to connect. Thank you. Have a great day as well! ☺

  27. Reblogged this on Agastya Kapoor की दुनिया and commented:

    1. Thank you for sharing the words! ☺

  28. what a lovely post 🙂 I will wonder around if you don’t mind 🙂

    1. Sure thing. Thank you. Glad you like it. ☺

      1. No worries 🙂

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